Love the Skin You're In
“You define beauty yourself. Society doesn’t define your beauty.” Lady Gaga
When I was younger, I spent a lot of time thinking about how flat my stomach was or how fat my thighs looked. I was so self-conscious! As I have matured, I’ve decided that life is too short for such self-negativity. I prefer to focus my time on loving what’s unique about me. As a result, I’m able to focus more on what’s happening around me and appreciate my relationships so much more.
Tips For Dressing For Your Body Type:
- Don’t wear oversized clothes.
- Find a “go-to” core piece that makes you look great. Build your wardrobe around this item.
- Do a closet cleanout. Get rid of clothing that is too big or too small, and donate them to a local shelter. You’ll be able to assess your closet much easier now.
- If something doesn’t fit quite right, get rid of it in your closet cleanout. You won’t feel confident if you’re tugging at your clothing.
- If you want to minimize a specific area of your body, opt for dark colors. Use patterns and bright colors to accentuate the features you’re most confident about.
Here’s an example of how I dress based on my figure. I’m short-waisted, have a “tummy” and my shoulders are narrow. The best pants for me reach my ankles or are boot-cut. This draws the eye away from my midsection. I can wear a brighter patterned top that will act as camouflage for my belly and make my shoulders look broader. I stay away from high-waisted and tapered pants.
Boost Confidence With These Basic Wardrobe Essentials
Bootcut Jean – Midnight Indigo
Pull on Ankle Pant with Back Pockets
Finally, when you are comfortable and look good, your self-confidence is boosted and it shows to people around you. Always remember, you are beautiful just as you are!